Love Over Duty
We do many things in life out of a sense of duty. We obey speed limits, come back to to work after the weekend, observe the laws of Nation and State. All of this is out of a sense of duty. There are many Christians who also see their relationship with God as acting out of a sense of duty. We worry that He is stalking us, peeking around some corner ready to "get even" if we do too many bad things. So with grim resolve we are determined to read the Bible, go to church, give our offerings while we mentally check off our list of Christian attributes.
Duty certainly has a place in everyone's life. We admire it for what it is. It is a wonderful teacher, a bell that wakes us up from moral slumber. It is a stick that prods us on and reminds us that life is greater than our own small passions. Like children, we would rather play than work, and therefore, need something to motivate us into more noble living.
However, we should not be bullied into thinking that duty alone is enough to transform us, cleanse our hearts and lead us back to God. It is not strong enough for that. At some point, it is love that must transform duty. We should obey God, not because we fear him, or even because it is "the right thing to do". In the end we need to obey him because we love him. We should ache to serve him. We should yearn to be like the one who is the center of our highest ideals and fondest affection.
Jesus said, "Blessed are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness". We understand "hunger" and "thirst". Perhaps the most real things we experience are "hunger" and "thirst". "Love" is another work which breaks through the barriers of the heart and moves us like nothing else can.
God will take over actions, created by duty and might even bless us for them; but let us be assured that there is more. It is "love" that creates a melody that creates a poem and writes a fine novel. IT is love that leads a mother to the child's bedside. It is "love", and "only love", that can lead us into a more complete relationship with each other and also, with our God.
Pastor Hans Lillejord